Reading and Writing Help for Left-handed Child - Boy - 4 Years Old

Updated on October 24, 2013
D.W. asks from Capitol Heights, MD
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My grandson, who is left-handed in pre-k4, is having problems with writing the numbers 2,3,5 and 7. He is writing left to right instead of right to left which results in the numbers being backwards. Also, he is having some reading problems. Any suggestion on learning tools, materials, books and/or anything to assist his mom to move him in the right direction. He is a bright child and she is worried he will be labeled as being a slow learner if he can't overcome these issues. Thanks

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B.C.

answers from Norfolk on

It's totally normal and it's just what kids his age do.
Most kids write a few characters and/or numbers backwards up to about 2nd grade.
This is totally nothing to worry about.
As for the reading - the best thing you can do is to read with him, make games of it, have him pick out the same word through the whole story, etc.
Make it fun!
Reading is something else that seems to take off round about the 2nd half of 2nd grade.
In the mean time give him things to do that will help his small motor control (build his finger/wrist/arm muscles).
Playdough, finger painting, lacing cards, threading beads, cutting out shapes from construction paper with safety scissors, coloring with crayons, etc - all these activities will help him with his writing.
He's fine!

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G.B.

answers from Oklahoma City on

A lot of kids in Kindergarten are still making those numbers backwards. It's not because he's left handed it's because he's 4 and when he's 5. This is something he'll eventually get.

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G.♣.

answers from Springfield on

My son is 4 years old, in PreK and left-handed. He is just now beginning to write his name. His teachers are not at all concerned about him. Many kids cannot write their name when they begin kindergarten, though that is a good goal.

Just keep giving him opportunities. My older son learned how to write all his letters and numbers in kindergarten. Some of the kids already knew how to do this. Some of the kids had never tried. My older son is now in 1st Grade, and they are working on independent reading this year. This is new. They did sight words in kindergarten, but the independent reading just started this year.

I don't think there is anything to worry about. He is only 4 years old. It's very, very normal for him not to have these things down yet.

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T.S.

answers from San Francisco on

He's only 4, he needs time to develop.
Make sure he gets to do plenty of cutting, gluing, lacing, beading, play doh, anything that helps strengthen those little hand muscles, that will help him with writing more than anything else.
None of my kids read at 4. My son was the slowest to develop reader of my three kids yet he is by far the better student and reader than either of my girls.
It's not a race.

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T.N.

answers from Albany on

Goodness, both my boys were still getting some letters and numbers backwards at the end of 1st grade, much less preschool! Both are college students on academic scholarships. No worries.

My daughter and I are both lefties and frankly at 46 and 16 we both STILL naturally want to go right to left, he'll get used to it!

Enjoy the very young years and relax!

:)

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K.F.

answers from Salinas on

I don't see how you can say he's having reading problems at 4. Try not to use labels like that, kids develop at different speeds and few are reading and writing well at that age.

My suggestion is to relax about it. Don't turn it all into one big chore or assign more work to correct his "problems". Read aloud to him every single day. Chapter books, books that require thought and imagination. Do arts and craft projects together, cut, color, paste, fun things that will improve his fine motor skills. If you do get a work book get one with mazes and puzzles that require "writing" but do it in a fun way and never force him to work in them.

Keep it light he'll come along. My lefty wrote some letters/numbers backwards in Kinder and to be honest her writing is still not all that pretty but she's an ace pitcher and a straight A student so no one is complaining here.

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P.G.

answers from Dallas on

Writing still is stinky for kids up through 1st grade and beyond. Relax, it's normal.

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P.K.

answers from New York on

Completely normal. Don't worry. He will do just fine.

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E.T.

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Writing numbers backwards is common even up into 1st grade. My first grade daughter who scores above grade level in math will still occasionally write numbers backwards.

Kids leave kindergarten knowing how to read. Very few kids enter kindergarten knowing how to read. I'm a reading specialist this year we have about 50 kindergarten students. About 4-12 of them started the year knowing how to read. Almost all the rest of them were ready to learn how to read.

Your grandson is right where he should be. The best thing you can do to keep him on track is to read to him, talk to him, and let him be a 4 year old. Don't push academics. If he can count to at least ten, say the alphabet, and has started to recognize the sounds that letters make he won't be labeled. You don't need anything special to teach those skills. Just a lot of books to read to him, lots of making up rhyming words, lots of thinking what words start with the different letters, and lots of opportunities to count. Don't do workbooks or flash cards. They really aren't that beneficial. Use real life opportunities.

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C.B.

answers from Orlando on

Problems? What problems? Sounds perfectly normal to me. Read bedtime stories and praise his writing efforts. He's already ahead of the game. Any teacher who thinks those are indicators of slow learning at his age has no business being in a classroom.

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J.O.

answers from Detroit on

I think it's cool he is writing. Mine is 4 and cannot write anything. Maybe the first letter of him name? His preschool doesn't do writing though.

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J.S.

answers from Washington DC on

My daughter who is right handed, is now in kindergarten and can read, also has troubles with writing the numbers 2, 3, and 5 - she also writes them backwards. At times her 9s will face the wrong way and she confuses the letters d and b.
I have never worried about it. She is learning to read and write and it is a lot of information to keep straight. I think it is pretty typical at this stage. I would focus more on having him learn to write in the right direction and not worry about whether or not some of the numbers are backwards.
The teachers at my daughter's preschool had a parent education night where they asked all the parents to write a sentence using the hand they do not normally use. I am right handed so I wrote with my left hand. My writing was horrible. I had to focus so hard to make it barely legible. All the parents around me had a similar experience. When it was over the teachers explained that what we felt was similar to what our children are feeling as they learn to correctly draw the letters and numbers. As we practice and become more familiar it eventually evolves into something that we no longer even think about, but it takes a long time to develop those networks in our brains.
At this point I would not be concerned.

A.G.

answers from Dallas on

Both of my left-handed sons did this and worked through it on their own. It's completely normal. My oldest is now a sophomore in all advanced classes making all As, and my youngest is in the 4th grade also making straight As. I think it's a mom's job to worry, but this is something his mom can relax about. :)

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D.H.

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As a lefty and from things I have seen in the past, do NOT have him line up his writing paper straight across the edge of the desk/table as this will cause him to turn his hand to write. (hopefully no teachers still do this, it is not natural) Look at how you place a paper down to write on it and do the mirror image of it for him - where his hand can flow across the page w/o dragging thru what he has written. He will get this in time, but it will be easier if he is not forced into that unnatural pattern!

(my grand is 8 - and still writes 5 backwards)

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C.B.

answers from San Francisco on

He will overcome them - writing is new to him. Give him some time to work it out. My GD is also left-handed and had some trouble with some of her letters and numbers. Practice is all it will take.

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