T.C.
If your son is developing normally (sounds like he is...many kids do not speak at 13 mo) then I would leave it alone for now. My friend had a baby born w/ hydrocephaly (& many other birth defects) so I have researched it some. Another friend had a baby with large head circumference & they did a test at the dr's orders...I think the ct scan...and determined he had some sort of hydrocephaly...but it was a minor kind & he will be fine & live a normal life. If I were you I would get a 2nd opinion. I wouldn't necessarily jump into a ct scan b/c there is radiation involved, but if you are truly concerned, I wouldn't let 1 dr's opinion suffice. Can you go to a developmental pediatrician or a specialist in the area & get their opinion? Maybe you should wait a few months & see where the #'s fall. My daughter had a bigger head at birth (looking back, it seemed very big!), and a petite body. A larger head doesn't necessarily mean something scary like fluid in the brain. When in doubt, get a 2nd opinion. I wish you the best!