J.P.
E.,
I totally understand, I have a 3 year old daughter who needs a change of scenery every 2 hours it seems. We too have torn up the places you listed.
One thing that has been a god send has been California Kids Sports center. There are several locations - we go to the one on Malone Rd. in San Jose. They have open explore everyday from 11-12. It's very reasonably priced considering everything available to them, trampolines, slide, bars, balls, all gymnastics equipment. The gymnastics coaches are also all readily available as well. Good opportunity to run out their energy and interact w/ other crazy kids of all ages.
Other than that we go to Target often to play w/ the toys. Or Toys r Us and Barnes and Noble. The book store works out well b/c she'll keep bringing me books she likes and I might get to read a few sentences in an adult book too. Petco to look at the birds and snakes. And there is always Chuck e Cheese - not a first choice of mine.
Good Luck