I had 2 c-sections with the first being an emergency and a LONG labor.
The "shakes" are because the epidural/anesthesia makes you cold. Its normal.
I did not have bad pain with either surgeries. All that was given to me was a Codeine Tylenol. And I was fine after, even after the epidural wore off after surgery.
I did fall asleep afterward... I mean, its a tiring thing to go through.
But I was mostly alert and did not fall asleep for long. I got to see and hold my baby as soon as they got him and her all checked and then was able to nurse as soon as possible and after I recuperated.
For my 2nd c-section, I recovered MUCH quicker and faster with less pain. My Doctor was so impressed. AND though, they had me get up and walk around as soon as I could... which helps recovery.
Also, I don't know if it matters or not... but my Doctor does NOT use "staples" to close up the surgery. He sutures each layer. Healing is better that way.
I did not use any support bands after surgery. I did not need it nor chose to use it. But I know it can help some.
Just ASK your Doctor, what they do, what the process is, what drugs/pain relievers they use, and what the reactions are. While I had my c-section, I was talking the whole time and with the Anesthesiologist... and he explained it ALL to me. And yes, you DO get cold and the "shakes" from the epidural.
Good luck,
Susan