In regard to the milk drying up, I've heard not only from my lactation consultant, but other people and books that you can place cold cabbage leaves over your breasts to quicken the process. Also, it helped me to place a warm/hot pad over the lump and gently massage afterwards. Repeat this several times a day if needed. If you don't have a hot pad, then a wet washcloth thrown in the microwave for about 45 seconds works great. Good luck! And hopefully you don't feel bad about not being able to continue breastfeeding. I planned on it for one year and my baby girl decided on her own to quit after 8 months--possibly related to some complications I was having. Long story, but what matters is that she's perfectly strong and healthy.