K.M.
How about a "mother daughter" peice of jewlery for her to wear. A pendant, bracelet, ring something you would both wear and think of the other when you/she wears it.
here are some cool decently priced peices ...I really like the two cirlces pendant
http://www.nextag.com/mother-daughter-jewelry/products-html
this one is a little pricey but beautiful
http://www.buy.com/prod/14k-gold-agate-mother-daughter-ca...
I love jewlery it never gets old as a gift especially for a mother. Mine makes it easy she loves boxes the ornate kinds.