L.C.
My son is 11 on the spectrum. I saw that you asked for support systems. Do you social skills help? There are MANY social skill groups around the metroplex that focus on all ages. You can join WARRIOR PARENTS on Facebook where you can ask anything and everything. There is a yahoo group called DFW MAFEA and the women are great at supporting and giving information. You can also email me and I will give you names of places and you can tell me in more detail what you need.
L. :)