J.B.
Well a really great friend of mine had it with her first. Went into the whole agonizing abdominal pain and sky rocketting bp at 7 months prego. She almost died, the baby almost died, she had to have an emergency c-section...but thankfully all went well and now five years later her daughter who was a tiny preemie is fine and has been caught up forever. I only tell you that part so you can see how severe it was. On her second pregnancy she did fine, had no signs of pre-eclampsia and went to term. I would say that if you do decide on a third child, getting a bp machine for the house would probably be a good idea. That way you can monitor yourself daily and if anything were to seem off you could get help early on and have a better chance of carrying the baby longer. It 's always worst case scenario for something to be discovered at crisis levels. Being that your doctor knows what you went through they may want you to come in and be checked more often that with your previous pregnancies. I think if you want to have another child, you can still go for it. Just arm yourself with the tools you need, be ready to deal with complications and just pray there are none. Best wishes!