Potty Training the Nakey Way

Updated on May 09, 2011
M.M. asks from Keokuk, IA
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Ok so here goes my daughter is very bright and knows how to use the potty and knows when she needs to go and goes just fine. She has been doing the naked method and no accidents on my floor THANK U LORD, We go places and she wears a diaper and usually tells us when she has to go. She may have one or two accidents( in the diaper) but usually even the smallest of pee or poo she is going on the potty. So now for the question, How long (i know everyone is different) till she can go places in the underwear. She wears underwear but i think she may confuse the training panties with diapers or maybe just forgets(IDK) bc sometimes she urinates in them. ( sometimes this takes place at home when we have company, which is Y i think it may be distraction) I remind her and ask her if she has to go and sometimes get the NO MOM but she is usually right on target and goes just fine. I jusat wonder how long I should do the nakey method. HAs any one did the nakey method? ANY advice? Thanks in advance to everyone offering advice. Oh and BTW if you are going to just critisize, mom bash me or just be plain rude Please dont waste both our time and just dont respond. LIFES TO SHORT to deal with stupidity!

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So What Happened?

Ok so I woke her up today and slapped panties on her. She only had one accident which was partially my fault bc I was pottying at the same time and she couldnt get them daown fast enough. She has been doing wonderful! She even wore them during nap time and woke up great. We went for a short errend run(bank,starbucks) stopped at a gas station so she could try to potty. She tryed but didnt have to go. Talk about a great day and no more diapers. If we have accidents then we have them but neva again will a diaper taouch her tushie. :) thanks moms for ur input!

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A.A.

answers from Columbus on

I would say go for the undies now!

We did cold turkey method as well so it's a little different to your situation, but on day two we took our son grocery shopping with his undies on (and full clothes) and he was great. Although we did have to run to the bathroom approximately 32 times in one trip, but I guess that's to be expected!

Just bring an extra set of clothes when you go out and see how she does. If she has a few accidents you can wait awhile to try again, but I think she sounds ready for full time undies!

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K.U.

answers from Detroit on

You didn't mention her age or how long she's been potty training for, but if she's generally good about using the potty and has been consistent, I would just start taking her out in underpants and regular clothes and bring a change of clothes with you just in case. If she has an accident, she will probably need to just feel wet to remember what she's supposed to do. We really didn't do the go naked method with our daughter but we did just go "cold turkey" and just stuck her in underpants at least so when they got wet she realized what it felt like and started making the connection between what her body was telling her and what she needed to do. We still had her in a pull-up when we went out just in case, especially because she was still scared of the big potty in the public bathroom, but she still didn't go in them. About 2 weeks into it she actually asked to go to preschool in her underpants instead of a pull-up and she did fine. She just goes out in underpants now and has yet to have accident - she will use the big potty now just fine, and it's been just over a month since we started. She's going to be 4 in August and she's been staying dry overnight too (but I still put a pull-up on her at night).

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S.S.

answers from San Francisco on

My son was a challenge to potty train. We tried several things before trying the naked method. We saw quick progress once we started the naked method. However, "naked" in our case didn't mean entirely without clothes; it meant naked next to the pp. In practice, we would dress him in shirts too big (hence long) and no pants, and let him behave as normal around the house.

When we had setbacks with the pull-ups in public, they were usually due to him not wanting to miss out on anything while off using the potty. I found that, in my son's case, he was not motivated by "big boy underwear", even if it had enticing designs, and even though he agreed it was more comfortable. He preferred the pull-ups so he wouldn't have to be bothered going to the potty while fun things were happening.

What we found helped (besides time and prayer) was having his friends over for play dates while he was clad only on top. In these situations, he was presented with the nakedness motivating him not to mess himself, plus the enticement and distraction of having fun with friends. We found that these situations gave him practice in being aware of his need to go use the potty despite having company and fun and games happening. Because these play dates were at our house, and with peers who were just ahead of him in potty training, it was a safe setting in which he could learn.

As another commenter wrote, every child is different, and I've observed that boys on the whole are harder to potty train than girls; so what worked for my son may not help with your daughter. Still, if you have friends with children nearly the same stage of potty training as your daughter, play dates while using the naked method might be a useful practice period and transition aid. If you dress your daughter in long dresses for such visits, no loss of modesty need occur.

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J.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

My son was against using the potty, and I was afraid pushing him would scar him somehow. Well, when he was three and a half I learned he couldn't start preschool because of not being potty trained. That same day, I told him he had to use the potty and had him go nakey all day. He had one accident the first day, one the next, and that was it. After the third day, having had no accidents, he never wore a diaper or went naked again. I realize he was an older child for potty training. My daughter is tougher. If I let her go naked, she just finds a private spot to pee on the floor. They are all so different! Just give her a chance and keep a spare pair of leggins in the car!

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M.A.

answers from Houston on

How old is she? That makes a difference. I am on board with you not being bashed. BUT, everyone has their opinions!!! ;)
I DID use pullups for 3 or 4 weeks...they worked for ME....maybe not for other mothers, but for ME. I have heard the whole, "glorified diaper" thing...well, if you use them properly, you WILL end up with a kid that has never had an accident...but, I'm just sayin'....
I also never had my DD run around naked. Again, pullups CAN work, if used NOT like diapers. I really do think once you find YOUR grove, things will be just GREAT!!!
Good Luck!!!

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