A.D.
I haven't started really potty training yet, but my daughter will use the potty if I take her to it and help her out (get her pants down, etc.)
Several people told me that the pull-ups type pants/diaper would make training harder (I like the Easy ups myself)but I am just not ready to take the jump to washing carseats/shopping carts, etc! LOL SO...I read somewhere that you can try to put a pair of underwear UNDER the pull up so they can feel when they are wet...but won't make a mess. I might give this a try when we get back from vacation.
One other thing I did early on to help my daughter go pee...and it's going to sound funny...I would blow gently on her belly (by her belly button) and I guess the "cool breeze" got things going! Then I got very excited and pointed out that she was peeing. Now she goes almost immediately if I put her on the potty...Just a thought!
As for the pooping...she just kinda figured that one out herself...I put her on when she would most likely go (after breakfast), and we read some books and whammo! (But before that, I would point out when she was making faces/turning red that she was pooping so she got the idea of what that pushing feeling was)
Good luck!
We can be potty training buddies in a couple weeks! (though I am thinking of waiting till the weather gets a bit warmer!)