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My son would not potty train due to daddy being in Iraq. He was potty trained one week after Daddy came home. (How frustating the year was. What I'm tring to say is that I tried everything as well, sometimes it's just a matter of all they are able to control. We learned to relax and have story time on the potty. He was able to oick his own books and we read for a certain time each day. Have him help clean the bathroom, put underwear on over the pullup and let him pick it. Eventually give him the options you want him to choose from ie- do you want to pick this underwear or this one(without the pullup but just don't say that) I hope that helped. My friend had her son peeing outside for a while like the dogs because it was the only thing that worked for them (thank the Lord that he pooped in the toilet though and no I don't reccomend that one, just thought I'd throw that one in for a smile) Good luck.