A.M.
J.---don't give up! I wouldn't force him to sit on the potty but asking him if he needs to go doesn't hurt. I found a website--pottytrainingsolutions.com that has all kinds of information from signs of readiness, how to get started and some reasons he may not want to go. I thought you might get be able to get some ideas to help you. I'm currently working with my 2 1/2 year old and she is doing pretty good-- She really started using her potty after I just let her run around the house naked (yes there were accidents but I expected them). I did find letting my son stand (on a stool) seemed to move things along quicker-- some people have their boys aim at cheerios to help them keep it in the bowl. Hope some of this helps. Good-luck, A.