M.B.
I have a boy so I know it is a little bit different but I used the bribery thing as well. He got a gummy bear to pee on the potty and then a different piece of candy for #2. But I definitley agree with the person who said she will go when she is ready. It took my son a long time to poop on the potty but I tried not to worry about it and he poops on the potty now. We tried the only underwear thing for a while but I think it is more punishment for us parents because then we have to clean all of that dirty underwear. Also does she go to daycare? They helped with the potty training for me and it helped for him to see his friends doing it.