I think you got the right question here...What can YOU do??? You are giving her all the resources, other than disciplining her for not using the potty, what other choices do you have?
My first was 2 months shy of 3 and my 2nd was 2 months shy of 4. I really thought #2 would be potty ready earlier to be like big brother...boy was I wrong. I now have a 2 1/2 yr old who will announce she needs to go potty...and then may or may not and then may not mention going potty for another month. I really thought she would be early too!I think most of it is she likes to wash her hands!
So many moms claim potty trained, when actually they are still wearing pull ups at night. To me, that isn't trained. My kids did it when they decided it was time and I NEVER bought pull ups, or changed sheets in the middle of the night.I think different people's ideas of trained can be confusing.
There are so many things our kiddos can't control and this is the one thing they can. We can toss paci's and get rid of bottles, blankies or whatever else. We can't force them to potty. You give them all the resources -we have panties, a potty, and the insert for the big toilet--when my daughter mentions potty, we go, we have fun, YEA..woo hoo, sing a song... but if she doesn't bring it up again...that is ok too. Try reading books and watching videos too. A baby doll that wets is another thing to try. Spend a day potty training the baby. (My little Mommy has a really neat one that the baby will only potty on her seat-)http://www.epinions.com/Little_Mommy_Potty_Training_Doll/...
When her mind is made up she will do it and not look back. Both of mine just woke up one morning and that was the day. How many kindergarteners aren't potty trained? It eventually happens. I have a 1 1/2 year old too, so with 2 in diapers, I am sooo ready! Of course, then we go out and I walk in a public restroom and think EWW>..I am so glad my girls have on diapers! LOL....boys could just stand their and aim, girls almost have to touch it!
Thanks for reminding me I need to get a travel potty too! HA!
Good luck, hang in there, when you least expect it- it will happen! Another milestone to your baby growing up!