Potty Training - Greenfield,OH

Updated on February 18, 2007
P.J. asks from Greenfield, OH
8 answers

Ok my daughter is almost 19 months and she is now wanting to sit on the potty so I let her. She hasn't gone in it yet but when she askes I put her on it. My question is should I start asking her more? I don't want to push it and set her back. Also my son who is 3 does not really do anything in the potty he really don't seem to interested except when my daughter is on it then he wants on it. Is it possible that my daughter will be potty trained first and might that help with my son? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

What can I do next?

  • Add yourAnswer own comment
  • Ask your own question Add Question
  • Join the Mamapedia community Mamapedia
  • as inappropriate
  • this with your friends

So What Happened?

I want to thank those who gave advice. I decided to go ahead and try to work with her and see how she responds and so this weekend o my she did wonderful. Saturday I got her up and asked her if she had to go and she said yes and I took her and she did it. I made a big deal out of it and she was so proud of herself. She even told me all weekend she had to go and she also poop in the potty. Between sat-sun she only had 5 accidents. I am so proud of her. My son is now also wanting to go on the potty because he sees her do it. Its so wonderful I see no more diapers in my future.

Featured Answers

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

P.Z.

answers from Cleveland on

My daughter started doing the same thing @ 18 mo. I was sooooo excited! She waivered back and forth, and finally trained ...@ 2 1/2. It's frustrating, but if you're able to be very consistant (I was not). and take her to the potty, she may train! If not...not. Sooner or later they all do!!! Just be patient. It is possible she trains first, girls tend to, I guess. My pediatrician said she had only seen 1 trained by 18 mo., and it was a girl. A co-worker of mine said she had her girls (3) all trained by 12 mo.!!! They are all grown now. Amazing! Good luck!

More Answers

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

J.R.

answers from Detroit on

P.,
I just got done reading a section in The Baby Whisperer Solves All Your Problems about potty training at a young age. She says if children show signs of interest to start the process by teaching them about the potty. Don't place any pressure but begin to introduce the potty at times you think she might have to go. Good Luck!

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

S.R.

answers from Toledo on

Hello P.. I am quiet impressed that your youngest wants to sit on the potty, but I wouldn't be discouraged about your son yet, he is still young. When I was trying to get my 4 y/o to use the potty I would announce that I was going to go use it and she would usualy want to join me. (Which is a problem now b/c I can't go by myself, the joys of motherhood :)!) Best of Luck!

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

D.B.

answers from Columbus on

I trained both my boys at the same time. It took 6 weeks. My youngest was 23 months. It helped that I had two boys. I had no problems at all with them going to the bathroom. I used M&M's as a reward. I had heard it was going to be difficult because boys are harder. I found that to be not true.

I trained my boys like my mom trained me. Cold turkey. No pull-ups. Just big boy underwear. I also controlled what they drank at night so they wouldnt have the urge to wet. Taking them to the potty bout every hour or so helped a great deal. I may have bleached and washed a ton of little undies, but it was worth it in the end. I felt the diaper look/feel of the pull up confused my kids cause frankly, it is still a diaper. I went old school with my kids...and it worked great.

Ultimately, you do what is best for you and your children. Remember, your mom...you know them best :)

Good luck!

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

N.D.

answers from Cleveland on

I've learned that the sayings are true. Girls will potty train first! From my experience if she's asking you, I would push the training. She's ready! Not that you're going to "push" her, just letting her know that she's ready. That may prompt your some go try also. Good luck with him. My son is 4.5 and still will not poop on the potty. Good luck!

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

T.

answers from Columbus on

my daughter started at about 18 months -- was trained by 27 months
My son started aroudn 20 and was not trained untill one month before he turned 3 (his sister was born in the middle of that and set him back a lot)

I know plenty of people who have their kids totaly trained by 22-24 months -- so I say, if she is interested, go for it.

I am sure you son will come around if she is done before him. Maybe you need to get two potty chairs.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

M.W.

answers from Toledo on

P.,

I have been an early childhood teacher for 7 years and in my experience every child is different. Here are some things to consider before you know your child is ready. 1- child is dry for 4 hour at a time, after nap and in the morning 2- child showing signs, asking. You have #2 there are a few more but would have to look in my papers for the article. You are doing the right thing by not pushing, and girls seem to potty train faster than boys. But the best advice i can give is that children will potty train when they are ready, it is the only thing in their life that they are in total control of.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

T.E.

answers from Columbus on

My son did the same thing around 12 or 13 months. He was going potty before he was walking. But, mentally he hasn't been ready to stay dry for the past 3 years (he's now 4). Our Dr. told us to keep it going when he started 3 years ago - and we have. Physically, he has been ready and able to potty train. Mentally, we are having issues of him wanting to stay dry and telling us that he needs to go.

I probably wouldn't have done it any different. I still would have kept him going on the potty - since he wanted to sit on it...

All I can say is good luck!!

T.

For Updates and Special Promotions
Follow Us

Related Questions

Related Searches