Potty Trained When Naked

Updated on October 22, 2011
J.V. asks from Chicago, IL
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With my daughter, I trained her by putting her in trainers. With my son, I let him train himself by running around naked.

Well, last week I decided to put him in training undies. Last week was great, he told me before he had to go and we got him to the potty. This week? He is wetting his pants and not telling me. Just two weeks ago he would come to me for a new diaper, so it's not like he doesn't get the wet/dry thing with clothes on. But, in the last two days, he has even decided to not go pee when he first wakes up. So there may be a control thing going on, or it may just be one of those awful regressions before the next developmental leap (he woke dry three times last week, this week he is soaking so much I have to change him in the middle of the night!), but I am at a loss as to how to handle it.

In any case, I need stories/ideas about going from naked training to training pants. I don't know what to do. Do I let him run around naked (it's getting cold!) or do I just keep him in trainers and hope he gets it? I keep finding him walking around with wet pants. I am mostly OK with this, I just don't want it to become a habit. But I just have no clue how to make the leap from trained naked to trained with clothes on. What drives me nuts is I decided with my daughter to not let her run around naked for this very reason!!!!!! I didn't want to have this problem!!!!! I'm really hoping this is just a developmental regression but I am fearful it is a control thing. If it is a control thing, what do I do? Stop mentioning the potty? He isn't' going back into diapers, so that isn't an option. He's been taking himself reliably to the toilet while naked for a few months. He is too big for diapers. But what now?

Should I maybe bring the potty out into the play area for a while as a reminder?

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So What Happened?

My son is doing great. I have him in his training undies and he is getting good at getting himself to the toilet. He also woke dry the last two mornings, so I am hopeful it all totally clicks before his second bday!

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R.B.

answers from La Crosse on

When you say trainers do you mean pull ups? If that's the case don't use them, use regular undies. Everyone of my kids went backwards if I tried to use pull-ups. But got it pretty quick if I used regular undies.

don't worry about it being cold, if it works being naked... let them be naked. Both of my two younger ones ran around naked all winter in the house last year. I would have a shirt, sweat shirt, long underware, sweats and covered in a blanket because I was cold ( our house is VERY cold in the winter) but they were just fine naked, IF they asked for clothes on.. .it didn't last long and they were naked again.

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B.

answers from Augusta on

Try putting him on at timer , taking him to the potty every 20-30 mins.

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A.V.

answers from Washington DC on

More than that, go back to when you would record his diapers and find out when his "schedule" is. Otherwise you'll mis-time it all day long or just get lucky.

My DD won't keep her clothes ON so it doesn't matter if she's dressed or not. She'll strip off the panties and leave them somewhere and go on playing. I have a sink full of potty clothes from today.

I do put DD's potty in the hall so it's not hidden where she's less likely to use it.

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L.E.

answers from Provo on

potty training is not always immediate. every child handles it differently but i can tell you after 3 kids that i wish i had been as relaxed about potty training with the first two as i am with the 3rd. if you ever feel frustrated or angry over any aspect of the potty training, take a step backward. it's ok. there's no one best way to potty train every child. for example if doing tons of laundry is driving you crazy, then do night time pullups. you can still do underwear during the day. or no clothing if you really think that's a good idea. pullups don't mean that you stop teaching the child how to get to the bathroom frequently and quickly. keep the potty training as positive as possible, even if that means rewarding with stickers or little marshmallows. the reward doesn't go on forever, it just helps them get excited and stick with their goal. i find dialogue very helpful. talk with your kids about how to wake themselves up and go to the toilet in the middle of the night, how to pause playing to go to the bathroom, how we always go potty before leaving the house and before going to bed and first thing in the morning so that there is more room inside us for yummy breakfast. talk about how good it feels to be clean and dry. take him to the toilet frequently, like every half hour or hour (do what you can without driving yourself nuts) until he tells you he can do it himself. good luck!

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T.B.

answers from Miami on

I believe it's a control thing and as a parent, you must lovingly show your son who is really in control. The ONLY way I was able to potty train my three children was by removing their pants and letting them go naked from the waist down. You are in a cold region, I totally understand your concern for the temperature, however, I"m sure you keep your home relatively warm so it shouldn't be too cold for your son. Once I had my first daughter potty trained and I decided to allow her to wear underwear during the day, she peed in them. So, I went back to getting her naked and she didn't have issues. Also to note that children get lazy when they have pants on. It is easier for them to pee in their pants while playing than to stop playing for 3 minutes to use the toilet. IF you decide to put underpants on him, I would take him to the toilet ever hour because it's unlikely he will tell you beforehand that he has to go. I never used a special potty chair. I potty trained them right on the toilet because I feel that a child needs to know that the bathroom is in a designated place because what happens when you no longer want him to pee or poop in a potty chair? Then you have to train him to use the toilet. I see that as more work for you, having to clean it out, and then do new training later on. Whatever you do, do NOT go back to diapers because that sends the wrong message to a child. Good luck, potty training is a challenging experience, but oh so rewarding when you don't have to clean dirty diapers anymore.

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S.C.

answers from Des Moines on

You are not alone! From 18 months on my son would ALWAYS use the potty-- as long as he was naked. Teaching him NOT to go in his pants was a WHOLE other story -- he used to just give me this LOOK-- like, "but Mom, I've been going in my pants since I was BORN!"

I beat my head against that wall off and on for 2 years-- I tried everything, and finally when he was 3 1/2 he got it... In the meantime he spent a LOT of time naked--even at 18 months he'd bring me his clothes when he wanted dressed/was cold, they know when they're uncomfortable and will let you know and I rather look at a naked baby than change diapers!

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D.J.

answers from Atlanta on

Yes I would bring the potty in the play area. I dont think there isnt any kind of control or regression going on. I think he's not using it because he dont want to. I had this same problem with my daughter. If the naked thing was working, go back to that and then ease into the trainers again

Good Luck!

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