i'm trying to see your hubbs point of view.
Sometimes it is important for dads to have a nice 8x10 short of their kid for the office or something, so while i know you are talking about cards, does he have any other professional picts of your dd?? He might not be articulating it right but he might just want a nice shot of her that wasn't done in the backyard.
I do agree some people can take lovely lovely candid shots that look professionally done, annnnnnnnd some people can take ok shots that THEY think look professionally done. and there are alot of "professionals and or amatures" that have nice cameras that think they can take great shots that maybe aren't really that great.
if we are striclty taking phhto greeting cards. then yes i usually like the shots i have taken, but mayb you could have laid out all the cards you recieved and asked him to point out his favs or called attention to the fact that there were no JC PENNEY"S portraits in the whole stack.
if he wants her taken into penny's or sears or where ever for picrts with the fake snow background then make that be his christmas gift from you.
for what it's worth, the day they take the photos they can give you the cards and you can start addressing the envelops so that in one week or less you can pick them up slide them in and drop them in the mail.
another option is to limit the list of people you send those cards too. maybe just hubs professional contacts, which might be another reason he wants proffessionalp icts. and hten you can send cute ones out to your fam.
lots of ways to look at this. and making your loved one unhappy on christmas seems silly to me.