S.J.
I use Neutrogena pore refiner and it works fairly well. I also use on top of my makeup a pore reducing makeup product from Mally Beauty. It is fabulous at hiding those pores! I cannot remember the name but it comes in a pink compact and comes with a sponge for application....it works wonders!
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