I used to be like you :)
We didn't have cable, so it was movie during lunch, but the rest of the time was for actual "Please run around with my kid & wear him out!" Time. Mentally, physically, I care not! But thou shalt be active!!!
I didn't change out of some kind of ideology switch. My son just got older. I think this is the guy version to when girls stop playing and start talking. And talking. And TALKING.
Now that he's 10?
I have been informed 'play dates' are dead (lol), and I am ONLY to use the term 'hang out' (at pain of my son dying of embarrassment on the spot. Teehee. Anyhow...
At 10 90% of his hangouts are focused on something electronic. xBox. Minecraft. Kinnect. Video recording or editing. Movie n pizza.
I think PART of it has to do with the fact that the kids are all exhausted between school/homework/sports. They are LITERALLY heading over to a friends for DOWN time. The other part, is that the kids are coming up with things to do themselves instead of me cruise-directing.
The other 10%? Basketball, bikes, snowboarding, swimming, sailing. These are the ones that still require parental supervision. They also require good weather and a DAYTIME (instead of evening) timeslot.
If we lived somewhere with nicer weather I would think there'd be more of this type (from times we've been elsewhere, like above the snow line, or in SoCal, etc)... But it rains here 300 days a year, and in the winter is dark by the time school lets out.
Not a lotta fun playing in the rainy dark. Which means inside. Which is limiting. KWIM?