Before considering the advice of us moms, please talk this over with your family, your spouse and your doctor. I realize you may want another child but what you explained was not easy on you or anyone else.
I saw your other post about recovering from bed rest and not to be negative, BUT what if another pregnancy puts you on bed rest? What if you are on bed rest for much longer? Who will take care of your first child? Who will help you everyday? There are a lot of things for you to consider before even thinking about 2nd child. First you need to rest, take care of yourself and your newborn, and recover the best that you can. Then start asking the questions. Get more than once OB opinion on your options. Do lots of research.
My first pregnancy put me on bed rest. It was well worth the wait, and yes it took me a long time to recover. No my complications were not as serious as yours but it also took me awhile to decide to have another child.