Hi, I'm P., I have been taking care of kids for 27yrs.
Most eating problems kids have is because of the parents it is not ever the child, nor are disapline problems it is also the parents. A two year old only eats what the parent will give her, you have tought your child that if she throw's a tantum long enough she will get what ever she wants. Did you know that the Chicken nuggets and pizza has over 998grams of sodium, each.. some of it has up to 1200 if not more, this will cause your child to have disabilitsy but most of all health issues when she is older.
NO 2yr old should have this much POWER>>>> in a house hold.
How to stop this behavior>
1. Do not buy this kind of food, start getting apples, bannas, grapes, pears, fun food and start making fun things to do with them.. put them in jello, or chop them up and make faces and animals on the plate with peantbutter. or even cream cheese.
take vegetables chop in small pieces, brocc, califlw, carrt, potatoes cooked, ect
do not ever put food to gather on a plate leave it so the child can and will have free choice. NO Casserole.. never.. they hate them.. keep foods separated. with a dip, a glass of water, or milk, juice ect.
Last, it is ok for the first few days, if your child choses not want to eat! but she will "cave in" and eat for she will get hungry. At this time it takes 22days to change a behavior.
YOUR BEHAVIOR.. NOT HER'S. Women I have been taking care of kid from 2 weeks old to 13teen 7 days a week 24hrs a day for 27yrs. If a child has a behavior problem, or eating distorter, or even sleep, wetting the bed, 80% of it is the parents, 10% is medical, 10% is childcare givers.
Stand up to your kids,Teach them, be role models. P.