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I was advised that this isn't the safest method but of course if that's all you can do then that's all you can do. While rubbers are uncomfortable though there are other forms of birth control, I did use a diaphram and that way my husband and I felt good and I was protected. Only time it didn't work was when the two times we didn't use it! And now I have two darling grown young men. Are diaphrams still in existence? I know there are a lot of forms of birth control that cost a lot, but then raising a child costs in the three or four figures these days, teehee. actually have gotten pregnancy tests at the dollar store, so don't rule that out. Good luck!