B.R.
First of all A., be encouraged. God is with you and He's on your side if you are trully His child. The "born again" experience is a must in becoming a part of the family of God.
Spiritual discernment tells me you are.
Please, if it is at all possible, get your daughter back in the house with you and your other child. She needs to be under your God fearing covering. Refer to the bible for you guidance, and let our Wonderful Counsellor, Jesus, speak to you out of His holy word.
As hard as it may seem, just set some parameters, with rules straight from the bible,that you can show to her. I know you have raised the children up in the word; and even when it does not seem like it matters any more, trust in God and His ability to keep His promises.
God says if we train up our children in the way they should go, and when they are old, they will not depart from "the way". God is faithful, His word works, and everyone of the promises are yea, and amen unto us His saints.
I am the Mother of 4, and grandmother of 5 grandsons. Like you, I have seen them stray, but not depart from the faith.
All claim to be saved with the evidence as taught in scripture, they are now, all grown. My grandsons are saved too. They range from age 7-21.
I know it's hard on you, and for you; but it's just right for Jesus, for nothing shall be impossible for God.
Proverbs chapter 22 has a lot to say on this matter, as well as Ephesians chapter 6, and of course Exodus chapter 20, where you will find the 10 commandmends. The one about children honoring their father and their mother, is the only
commandment with the promise of long life, and success in the land, for obedience, and the life being cut short for dis-honoring, and disobedience.
A health fear of God instilled in her, the bible teaches, is the beginning of wisdom.
Then, pray for and with your children, praying the word; because God watches over His word, to perform it!
Therefore, if we pray God's word into our lives, then we can be still and see the salvation of our God, concerning our situations.
If God speaks His word from the inside of you, through your mouth, then HE WILL BRING IT TO PASS!
Do not run out and get an attorney, that's an extra expense on you. APPEAL TO THE STATE ATTORNEY GENERAL'S OFFICE IN YOUR AREA, AND HE WILL PROVIDE EVERY BIT OF LEGAL COUNSEL YOU NEED, FREE OF CHARGE. Just always follow the State's guidelines. As your children gets older, your x will have to provide for them on the next level. I know this from experience.
Please, perservere, and keep your teen with you. She needs you more than ever as she goes through puberty, (adolescense), with all the harmonal, and other changes going on. DO NOT ALLOW HER TO MANIPULATE YOU, SHE WILL TRY!
Trust and obey God, lean not unto your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him in prayer, and He will direct your paths.
THERE IS NO OTHER WAY. They, like us, may stray but will never, never, never depart.
Be Blessed,
Your Sister In Christ,
Beverly