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*** Ok, I do see now that you have posted she has been in business for 3 years. I don't feel adding 2 days in a year is too much, but starting with what she did seems like a bit more than average. I do feel that she has more PAID time off than the average provider who has been in the business for only 3 years. If she has worked in the child care field before home daycare, maybe it is justified. If not, she seems rather bold to start with that much time off. But, she is probably going into this job, knowing it is long hours and people burn out very quickly, so has anticipated needing the time off to recharge herself.***
I am a licensed family child care provider and have worked in child care for 22 years. I currently have 19 paid holidays, 7 paid personal days (used for illness, training, vacation, etc.), and 4 scheduled non-paid days off for 2010.
You say you have been with her for 3 years, but not how many years she has been providing child care. If she has only been doing this for 3 years, IMO, she has a lot of paid time off. If she has been doing this for a long time, it would seem appropriate. Also, she increased her rates by 50 cents, does that mean you are paying her hourly? If so, chances are she is making less than someone who gets paid per day or per week.
I just want to speak about some of the comments Amantha made below. There is a lot of information we do not have, so it is difficult to come to some of the conclusions you have made. When a parent enrolls their child with a provider, they are accepting the provider's policies and are aware that policies and rates can, and probably will, change yearly. Anyone in any job hopes for more time off and more money each year, so this provider taking both is commendable. Many, many providers are over worked, under paid, and under appreciated and have a difficult time standing up for themselves and taking the well deserved time off and the well deserved rate increase. J. does not tell us how many days her provider is adding or what her old rates were. She may be adding one day off. Maybe she has not raised her rates in 7 years (MANY providers have a hard time raising rates and take YEARS to do it). We also do not know if this provider has increased her education, gotten a degree, become accredidated, or had any other professional accomplishes or added any services that more than justify additional time off and a rate increase. This provider may go over and above what is expected of a provider to do, we don't know. I don't mean to be rude or defensive, but your post makes it sound like the provider is doing something wrong and does not deserve the extra money or time off.
And just a comment on daycare providers taking time off; most providers work long hours, many more hours than most people. Not only do we work the hours we spend with the children, but the hours spent preparing the house for daycare, grocery shopping and buying art supplies, planning the curriculum and setting up our space, cleaning up at the end of the day to make our daycare our home, the time spent planning and preparing meals for the kids, time spent in daycare association meeting, training meetings, and other classes to become a better provider, etc, etc, etc. A daycare provider's job starts well before the kids arrive and continues long after the kids have gone home for the day. So, when a provider asks for a few extra days off each year, be grateful. Be glad that your provider is taking care of herself and taking the much needed, and deserved, time off. The happier, healthier, and better frame of mind your provider is in, the better the care she can offer, and the happier your child will be.
J., I am glad you have found a provider you are happy with and feel so comfortable with. I hope that relationship continues.
S., mom of 3, daycare provider for 22 years