Hi M. -
I simply do not vaccinate my kids until they go to kindergarten. I had a bad experience with vaccines with my oldest son (I did the ridiculous 20+ vaccines they recommend in the first year of life with him) The reason they vaccinate new babies so much is because their immune system is not developed all the way. The mother's body is designed to give a certain amount of immune protection to a newborn through breastmilk until their system is fully functional. So giving all those vaccines just puts an enormous stress on their systems, and I'm convinced can sometimes (not always) cause neurological and other damage. If you send your child to daycare, or he is in another environment where there is a high risk of infection, you could weigh the risks. I thought the risks to vaccinating newborns far outweighed the risk of disease (how many children become autistic vs. come down with diptheria or tetanus???????)
After age 4 or 5, kids' systems are fairly robust, and the risk of autism goes way down. I still do not do very many vaccinations for kindergarten (I sign the waiver every time - so I, not the state, can decide what is best for my child. I for sure and definitely avoid the MMR vaccine at age 15 months - that one should only be given to older children.
The more research I see, it is coming out that autism is an environmental disease that shows in genetically sensitive individuals. I am trying to keep the environment my kids are in as free of negative environmental influences as possible.
And lastly, I cannot stress this enough - pay attention to your intuition!!!!!! It is worth more that all the doctors' opinions or studies in the world. You are your child's mother, advocate, and know him best. He is an individual, not an average. If your intuition is kicking in on this baby and not the other kids about this, I would pay attention to that. It is the best source of information we have on an individual level. Trust your intuition.