Opinion of Afterschool Care Center That I Visited...

is this an actual daycare center or is it just an afterschool martial arts lesson? 2 totally different things. I would think if it is an afterschool lesson that might be run a little more lax. but if it is an actual daycare/afterschool program they are allowed by law to have no more than I think its 12 kids at a time per adult. different laws different states but no state in the US is going to license a center giving 80 kids to one adult. i would skip this one

my issue is the adult to kid ratio that would have made me hit the door running I would not have even gotten to the pick up part ... just my opinion.

No ID checks, no possible way one adult to 30-40 kids can be safe let alone structured and already seeing that the safety precautions promised aren't followed=no way my child attends.

RUN, don't walk, to another option!!!

Yes, I would have been freaked out and definitely would not have registered my 5 yr old there either!

I would contact the state on this one. Not only should you RUN from this place, but I would feel an obligation to have it checked out by the authorities!

Yes. Move on and find another place. Our son goes to a program run by the city and school district in the summer and even though they recognize me from previous summers, I still am asked for ID at the beginning of the summer. If they don't recognize you, you will definitely be carded.

I'm not sure you'll find a place that's locked from the inside because that's not safe from a fire safety standpoint. However, you should feel confident your child will be safe overall. If you're questioning it in any way, red flag. Lack of appropriate staffing levels is also a red flag.

I would report the place to the county. That is really scary.

I would have been really uncomfortable with that. What if it had been a non custodial parent. Think how easy it would be for an ex to have some random woman call and give the kids information and say that someone was picking him up. The ex shows up and Johnny walks out with him because the provider said, "He knew who he was."
I'm glad you are walking away!

no you are right, and that place needs to be reported.

You will run in to this situation every time when you are not looking at licensied child care facilities. Even the Y is not a licensed child care facility. They only have the kids a couple of hours after school so they are not required to be licensed. They are part time child care. A full child care facility will be licensed and do the things you are looking for.

yes! how did he know that wasn't some ex not allowed to see the kid but the kid always liked him? I would definitely keep looking!!

I would be so freaked out, I would call the department of early childhood ed. Not okay.

keep looking, go with your gut and it sounds like it is telling you to do just that.

Yikes! Go with your gut. Just the adult/child ratios alone sound terrible. The 'boyfriend' waltzing in, and your experience, sound appalling. I think this is only the tip of the iceberg for that center!

Yes, I would've been freaked out by it and completely appalled!

I would NOT let my DS go there. Keep looking !

I guess it would depend on how old "Johnny" is. If he is obviously old enough to know who was picking him up - then I would not be so worried.....a 5 year old - yeah, I would probably be concerned.

90 kids with 3 adults (the max amount you cited)? How is that legal, even with school age kids. 30 to 1 ratio?? That just does not sound right.

I too would be alarmed by the lack of security and supervision. YIKES!!

Too many red flags- this place probably isn't licensed and guess what, they probably don't have to follow any rules about checking ID, number of children allowed, staff training or even screening their staff because they are running an after school enrichment program rather than child care.

This too has always made me very nervous. I do check Id's some of the time. But often I don't. I ask the moms if they have any friends or relatives or most importantly, Ex's that know who I am or where the child is staying. They all tell me the same thing. They don't tell people who I am or where I am unless it's their Grandparents or someone else currently allowed to pick them up. We tell them not to ever send anyone without a call and I collect info about what the person looks like, when they will be coming, and what they are driving. If anyone came without me knowing in advance, then I stop and call the parent. Fortunately, the few times it's ever happened the parent did answer. I am in a private home though.

That does sound like a LOT of kids to be cared for by just one or two people!

Definitely not the place to be!
Do you have a YMCA program there?

Wrong and careless on so many levels!!!!!! Take your own advice and look elsewhere :)