L.F.
My friend did it twice. The last will he did not get signed. So when he died suddenly it was not valid and his wishes were not fulfilled.
I just had someone write my will. He did not charge much. I had to do it because I needed to protect my son while I was having cancer surgery. I suggest you put everything asside and write out what you want to have. Then you call a lawyer and go get one made. I also suggest you purchase the insurance that pays off your house and cars if the spouse dies. It is a blessing to have that taken care of when you are distressed over a loss.