Unfortunately, there is no "miracle pill" that will melt fat off while you watchh TV (how I wish there was!!!!) But If you join a gym, like the Y, they have free childcare with your membership fees. I love going there, not only to work out, but also to get a break from our son. I love him to death, but I stay at home and need a little time to myself some days. As far as the sweets go, try dried fruit. It may not sound very appealing, but when the water is taken out of the fruit (drying process) the flavors and natural sugars of the fruit are intensified. So something like dried cranberries are very sweet, as well as dried plums, prunes, raisins, etc. For your first attempt at dried fruit, I would definately choose something from the list above over a banana or apple. Those are not as sweet and if you want to satisfy your sweet tooth, those may not do it at first.
If you find yourself craving a chocolate chip cookie, eat one, bot only 1 or 2. If you deprive yourself, you'll get to the point where you have to have it and you'll go off the deep end when you finally get it. Remember, everything in moderation. I hope this helps. Good luck!!!