I have been on the pill, the patch, and Nuva Ring.
Nuva Ring was my favorite for several reasons:
It was easy to remember, it was convenient, it only came out once or twice when it wasn't supposed to.....
HOWEVER....
I would caution that I believe it may cause infertility problems or delays in fertility that haven't been investigated very thoroughly yet. I say this because with my first daughter I got pregnant immediately and with this pregnancy it took a year after coming off of the Nuva Ring to conceive. We have been tested and have no known fertility problems, I did not have excessive stressors, etc. and feel like the blame might be that of the Nuva Ring (with my first pregnancy I came off the pill and was pregnant the next cycle.)
So this may be something to consider. I did not realize that they had taken the patch off of the market, as another poster stated, but I did have probs with the patch constantly coming off, sticky residue on my skin, rashes, and mood swings.
IUDS sound like the best option to me and that is what I am planning for at this point after the birth of the baby I'm now pregnant with. I have heard that SOME women do have reactions to them, but it sounds like the majority don't even know they are there.
If you're not satisfied with answers or time taken with you by your OB/GYN, try contacting a CNM (Certified Nurse Midwife.) They are usually covered the same by insurance and can prescribe and examine you just the same, but are sometimes more "woman friendly" if you know what I mean!
'M.