T.P.
Hi N.,
I agree -you need to remove in order to boost supply. I work 2-3 days a week and on the days that I am home I nurse him every 2 hours. It is a bit much, but it really helps my breasts refill. I would also recommend switching to the "More Milk Plus" tincture by Motherlove instead of all the Fenugreek. I actually put the tincture into a cup of Mother's Milk Tea and drink that a few times a day. You can also try switching sized of the flanges on your pump or try the "soft" plastic ones instead. Those really helped me.
If all else fails, the medicine Reglan is shown to increase prolactin levels in the body which usually results in a very quick and almost shockingly great increase in milk supply. This medicine is a powerful drug and needs to be taken only after you have done your research. I tried it and ended up having a bad reaction so I stopped after a week, but it worked, and it worked fast. There is another med called dompederone that is not widely available in the U.S. but works in the same way without the same side effects. I think these medicines are last resorts and I highly recommend talking to your OB or a Certified Lactation Consultant to get more info.
If you need to talk, let me know - I was in your shoes and I know exactly how you feel. Best of luck and congrats on nursing up to this point!!
T.