I have three big LAZY kids. Who will try and get outta of having to walk to the bathroom to pee.
If I gave into all of their daily complaints, I would have ten loads of Dishes...Four extra loads of laundry....Someone elses favorite movie, ALWAYS on...''So it is not fair he gets to watch it''...Oh and ''he had some so I get it too'' would be filing in the space between..''no mom I want the blue cup''...Blah
This is a constant battle, mainly with my middle guy. He has the Me first, everything is mine, unless, i dont want it mind frame right now. He just turned the corner for the worst. So, when he doesnt get his way...His horns come out and He tries to pushy pushy me...I have stopped giving in. The fits are well worth not giving into their every request...I have learned how to find joy out of them crumbling because I wont back down!!
Nine times outta ten the fit is followed by, ''Ok, mommy I will do it''..depending on what the ''It'' is I will sway one way or the other. Only if it doesnt leave me backing down and showing them they can win...I try and make everything a tool for learning when it comes to their attitudes.