I have read a book Called WHAT TO EXPECT THE TODDLER YEARS from what I have read sometimes they will not night train until their are between the ages of 6 and 8 even then its an internal clock that tells them when they are ready not us so what I am trying to say is go for it but don't be discouraged if it doesn't work the first time around. some choices now that she is older you may try are:
1. Turn it over, Give your child full responsibility for toilet training. It's your BM and your urine, you can make them in the potty when you want. And if I can help let me know k.
2. Present choices, now or later And keep your own opinions to yourself.
3. Stop reminding, don't say anything and anything you say may be held against you and further delay this process.
4. Don't talk about it. don't make it a issue don't discuss it either with child or others in child's presence
5. Sweeten the "POT". offer an incentive for success. a sticker on a calendar, good luck with this one.
6. Enlist help. Often a few words from a neutral authority figure, such as a nurse, doctor, or teacher, are more effective than a thousand from a parent.
7. Give it time. Eventually your toddler will decide when it's time. stop pushing it and it will come.
This is straight from the book so good luck and take your time. Many toddlers are not yet developmentally ready to hold their urine for ten to twelve hours or to wake in response to the bladder's signal that it is full. Some toddlers master this step as soon as they can stay dry all day automatically staying dry Thur the night. A majority don't. And since this is normal night time training isn't recommended at this age. If at point they start waking up dry and this happens regularly dispense the night time pull-up. Otherwise don't begin a concerted campaign to teach your toddler to stay dry at night it's far to early to intervene. If night time wetting is still a problem when your child is 5 years old, offering incentives may be enough to help them gain night time control. these incentives can also be used with an alarm to go off each time a child begins to wet, eventually training child to wake when child's bladder is full. So if this helps good for you and if not don't force it in due time her brain will tell her when. Good Luck and Best Wishes to you and your famliy..
A. A.