D.B.
I'm sorry you are so worried. Based on this as well as your last question, I think you really have to be as supportive as you can be of the new parents, who are exhausted and overwhelmed. Anyone with a new baby is like that - and if there are some tests that may be of concern, that feeling is multiplied. Thinking that they are getting you all worried and put into internet-research mode is just going to stress them out even more.
These medical questions have to be answered by the neonatal specialists. I think it's better for you, and for your child, for you to get into the nurturing grandma role, keep them upbeat and hopeful, and talk about the joy of this baby. I really think, as grandmother, you can't do more than that unless and until they invite you to medical appointments. Please don't become one more person they have to worry about - let them share their info as they wish without worrying about your reaction.
So much of what happens with newborns is rapidly changing - lungs mature, babies adjust to conditions outside the womb, development continues. And you just have to wait and see, no matter how frustrating that is. Trust that the parents are smart enough to get good care, and support them without asking too many questions. They aren't getting any sleep. They need your upbeat attitude.