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I always find that if you can get a good quality cotton comforter, maybe the toddler bed size, they just get softer and softer with each wash. You have to steer clear of the character comforter sets from walmart, etc., as they are just not soft at all. But I have found that an inexpensive option is the Circo brand from Target. They do seem to be the softer cotton type, that soften with each wash. My son has Circo bed sheets and comforter on his bed, and they are just getting softer and softer... :) My son still has a crib comforter that someone bought him as a gift when he was born - it wasn't the one that went with our nursery ensemble, so we just used it multi-purposedly, as a blanket to lay him on on the floor, or just for him to play around with - which he still does... He has a fettish for blankets - LOL, so we have many, fleece, velvety soft ones, cotton, crocheted, etc., and that old cotton comforter is the softest one he has! Nice cotton will just wash to be so soft!