R.G.
Hi A.,
I have no advice, I just wanted to say that I could have written this myself. My daughter is 2 and I have another baby girl due in March. I also struggled with breast feeding and followed Babywise (LOVED it!!) but am terrified of what's going to happen with my second, and to my first while I'm struggling with my second. Anyway, I just wanted to say YOU'RE NOT ALONE!! I think we just need to relax, take a deep breath, remember that neither child will remember any of this when they're grown (that gives me great relief!) and try to roll with the punches. It's not easy, I know, but stressing out won't help either, especially with the breast feeding. And look on the bright side, by the time my baby gets here, you'll be an old pro and have all the kinks worked out! Best of luck to you!!
R.