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Updated on March 28, 2012
E.V. asks from Tempe, AZ
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I saw an ad in craiglist that offers 6 Brazilian wax for 12 women for free as part of training. He said that he is a male aesthician and he is the best in industry and everything is stricly professional. He will give 3 more as a bonus if we give a referral. Will you believe this guy? I don't mind male hairdresser,but waxing? And isn't it quite a number for part of training? I wanted to have one, never try it before. Thankz

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

An Esthetician... at least in my State... they HAVE TO BE LICENSED. In the State that they practice in.

And they are employed by an OFFICE.
IF they are in solo practice, then they would have a BUSINESS LICENSE in addition to their License to practice in their State.
AND, if they are only in "training"...then they must be, affiliated with a SCHOOL... and not just putting ads by themselves, in Craig's List.
AND the premises in which they do their practice, ALSO has to be, inspected by the Health Department.
MANY things, to be an Esthetician.

Here is more info.:
http://acne.about.com/od/diagnosisofacne/f/whatisesthetic...

Now, an "Aesthetician"... is different. That is someone who specializes in skin care. NOT waxing. A Cosmetologist.
There can be an intermingling of terms.
http://degreedirectory.org/articles/What_is_an_Aesthetici...

This guy, is looking for free cheap thrills of naked women.
If he was the best in the business, he would NOT have to put an ad in Craig's List. He would ALREADY have a Clientele and be working in an office with clients.
AND he would not be "in training."

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E.F.

answers from Kalamazoo on

If he's training, how can be "the best in the business"? Scam.

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K.B.

answers from Tulsa on

I would NOT do this. I would NOT go to a free gynocologist in a storage unit either.

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

If he's doing it out of a hotel room - no.

If he has a business then MAYBE but really? I would NOT go alone. There are some legitimate businesses offering things on craigslist. But I would NOT go to his home, have him come to mine nor would I meet him somewhere other than a legitimate business.

ETA: Sorry - I didn't catch that he contradicted himself....best in the business and in training...sorry...with that contradiction I WOULD NOT go. Period.

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answers from Dallas on

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!

Seriously, NO. If he was the best in the industry, he wouldn't be training. He wouldn't be giving something away on Craigslist. He wouldn't need to trade free services for referrals. He would have professional advertising. He would have a business website, or work for a business that has a website. He would post all credentials. He would offer referrals He would OFFER all that information in the ad, upfront and clearly.

I'm guessing it's also not at a licensed business with other employees in the building? Weirdo, pervert, creep. That's what I bet he is. I bet he wants an angle to get women over and peer at their privates, or carry out some sick fantasy. At the very least. Do NOT do this. Too many stories of perves hurting people off Craigslist. NOT worth the risk.

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J.K.

answers from Kansas City on

What???!! Do you really need to ask this question? This weirdo is probably just hoping he can get one woman to answer the ad, and make her believe that 11 more people are waiting in line for him........ Anyway, wouldn't you prefer a woman to do this job?

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C.W.

answers from Santa Barbara on

He's on Craigslist and the best in the business huh??? I don't mind a male gyno or a male massage therapist but a male brazilian waxer *in training* (setting up the next year with you) from Craigslist....NO!! I wouldn't sign up with a woman in training either though. For that stuff I need an expert!!

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T.F.

answers from Dallas on

Not a chance. This has red flags all over it. I'd worry about the cleanliness of the place and if it was up to par with health inspections... UGH

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M.C.

answers from Colorado Springs on

"free as part of training" and "best in industry" just don't go together. Do the math. ;)

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J.B.

answers from Boston on

Unless he's doing it at a licensed salon, no.

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☆.A.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Nope. Shady. Most Likely.
It's not about whether he's a male or a female...it's about the heebie-jeebies!

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J.L.

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NEVER...EVER...TRUST AN AD LIKE THIS!!!! DANGER!!

In fact, until you are better assimilated into this culture and country and understand the more seedier side of things here, just stay away from Craigslist. There are more bad things and crimes associated with that site, than simple yard sales and free give aways.

I know you mentioned in your profile you're new to this country. You should know terrible crimes often happen to those who naively answer craigslist ads like this. These people (like the Brazilian wax man) are usually crazy rapists and murderers, people looking for prostitutes under the radar of the police, or fronts looking for people to work in the pornography industry or in prostitution.

You should also know when buying and selling things through craiglist, many people have had their financial information stolen, their homes robbed, and more. So never, ever give out personal information like your home address or phone numbers to anyone through sites like craigslist. And if you do choose to buy something (like furniture for instance) or sell something (like clothes or furniture) never do the transactions from home, meet in a very public place like a fast-food restaurant to do the transaction, and use cash only! People have been known to get into your bank accounts with check and credit card numbers. If you're looking for work, use an employment agency or your state's employment site, not Craigslist. Once again, it's too hard to tell which jobs are legit or not.

If you want a Brazilian wax, go to an expensive and reputible spa-salon, not some unlicensed person who has to get training experience through a craigslist ad. Regular salons don't usually do a service like this. You'd have to go to a full service salon that has a spa, and those are always pricey. Full service salons are the salons that provide services beyond hair styling, such as waxing, tanning, facials, massage, herbal wraps, aromatherapy treatments, manicures, pedicures, and sometimes non-surgical facelifts and botox. They (salon spas) usually employ people who are licensed and specialized in a particular area. So you'd have a stylist for your hair, but an esthetician for your nails and a colorist if you were to get highlights etc.

Furthermore, real estheticians get their training and experience through school before they graduate. Clients can go to these cosmetology schools and get regular salon services at a discount because it's a training school. While it is a school, you would receive your services at a real salon run by the school, and your esthetician would be monitored by experiened estheticians (teachers).

It is highly unusual for someone to do something like this at home for "experience" all on their own. Legitmate stylists and estheticians usually work under the guidance of an actual school...not from home with no one monitoring their work and most important they are licensed or working under a licensed salon.

Lastly, you do know what's involved with this type of waxing and what part of the female body is waxed, correct? Would you allow a strange man to touch you there in a setting that isn't guaranteed to be sanitary or safe? What would your husband think? People can get infections from waxing if the person doing it doesn't know what they're doing. And what guarantees does this person have to ensure that your privacy and dignity will be protected? Do you really think he's going to have an assistant on hand to make sure things stay on the up and up? I don't think so. Sounds like a pervert looking for an unsuspecting victim. You might do better to report this ad to the police and the site...than respond to it.

Just remember, you now live in very expensive country where simple services and things that you can trust can cost alot of money. So if you do find something that is super cheap, seems to be too good of a deal to be real, there probably is something very wrong and it is probably something that should be avoided.

While things are unfortunately very expensive, you sometimes have to decide it's worth the expense if it ensures you'll be safe, not cheated, or not taken advantage of. Otherwise,you're better off just forgoing it altogether.

I don't think saving a few pennies on beauty services is worth the trouble. Just like picking a good doctor, this is one area you could run into some real problems if you go cheap. Your safety, health and appearance are at stake, afterall. If you want to save money on beauty services go to a reputible salon chain that has a training school. I don't know if the JUUT salons are in your area, but they have a really good training school and you can get services at a reasonable discount. Fantastic Sams and Cost Cutters are affordable. They don't do Brazilians, but they do wax your eyebrows and face for under $12.

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J.K.

answers from Omaha on

I probably wouldn't do it BUT just because it's craigs list does not mean it's automatically bad! I've bought lots of things off of there.

If you are really interested I would request credentials. Get his name, where he is training, ask for a refferal and who you can talk to in order to confirm he is in training. If this is a legitimate service, he will offer this without question. He should have a mentor you can confirm with, or a salon where he is working.

A lot of piercists/tattoo artists are required to do the same kind of training. You have to practice X amount of times before you get certified. I have no idea if the same thing applies to waxing tho.

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