K.P.
STOP THE PRESSES! Use BLUE (yes, it must be BLUE)Windex!! To remove: Spray and blot with a clean cloth.
I had my own dark red lipstick incident (lipstick went through and ALL OVER my wash. Note: these were all the clothes I was planning on wearing for my trip that I was leaving for on the next day!). Panicked, I grabbed the closest cleaning solution -- and nearby was a bottle of blue Windex. I soaked all the areas that had lipstick, ran it through the wash again -- GONE!! ALL OF IT! No kidding!! You can imagine how thrilled I was.
Now, I use it on any red stains -- wine, lipstick, blood -- even berry stains. Note: It does not work on marinara sauce -- use Dawn dishwashing soap.
One more note: Hairspray is for removing ink.
I know this will really help!!