J.G.
I feel for you, sweetheart. I wish I had more experience to share with you. Just a few ideas here:
- Have kids help you out. At 3, 5, and 6, they can pick up their rooms, dust, unpack dishwasher (you do the knives!), put up laundry in their drawers, etc. You said you have so much to do and you can't do it while they're awake. Why not? Better to double dip time with kids & chore than have an upset tired M.. You'll burn out quickly.
- Shop at Goodwill - Sometimes you can find some great stuff for cheap. Also, plan your meals using what's for sale that week (just another idea for budgeting). We are very frugal at this house. When chickens are on sale for 88cents/pound we buy 6 and put them in the freezer.
- Use Crockpot - this will save time for you and hubby cooking, let you spend more time with kiddos.
- I might suggest selling Mary Kay or Avon or Discovery Toys, but I had bad luck with MKay and was not much of a good upfront saleswoman. Discovery Toys might be different though. www.discoverytoysinc.com
- See if you could cut your hours, or work different days so that you and hubby can spend SOME time together too.
- Do your parents live nearby? If I told my mom that I was so overwhelmed and I asked her to help, she'd love to help come clean my house for me while I'm at work, or would come over and cook for me and would love to watch me play with the kids or help them with their chores.
Sorry that's all I got. If I think of more, I'll add it to the list.