B.H.
We had our 3 yr old's 1 yr party at Chuck E Cheese. Even tho he didn't do much all the other kids had fun, and the parents could sit around and chat while my older kids helped with the younger kids. Unfortunately their food isn't that great tho.
As far as working from home, have you ever considered selling Avon. It only costs $10 to get started. It's what I do so I can stay home with our six kids. Now just before Christmas is the perfect time to get signed up! Let me know if you want more info!