Grand Slam in Eagan has been a hit with my son. You can play minigolf, try laser tag, and play the arcade. It's got batting cages too if he likes that sort of thing (but that wasn't my son's choice at 8 - too hard, he'd say.) They have pizza there, too. I think just spending some of the day "hangin' out" is also really good. He's getting older, and having the opportunity to just talk to mom is a good thing. He might even like being at home for part of the day and baking cookies with you and getting the first one, etc. might be a nice change. Just going for a walk around the neighborhood, or you watching him do something he's good at (art, music, riding his bike, skateboarding, etc.) would be nice for his ego and mom memories. Good luck. Whatever you do, it will be nice. Do take a picture.