J.S.
Since she is your girlfriend, make arrangements among several of her friends (including you) to go to her house and tell her you will take her phone calls for her...I'm sure that is what she is needing MOST right now! All anyone needs to know at this point is that she lost the baby ~ no details necessary. If you are close to another one of her friends, why don't both of you go, and while you are screening her calls for her, go through the baby gifts she was given. Anything that still has the tags on it can be returned (another offer to make among her friends), and if the tags have been removed, offer to take them for her (if she can't stand to see anything right now) and store them until she is ready to go through them and sort what she wants to keep, and what she wants to donate.
A friend of ours lost her baby this summer, too, and she did NOT want to continue wearing her maternity clothes, so a bunch of us at church pitched in a little bit of money, and got her a gift card to use at Kohl's so she could buy a new wardrobe in the size that she needs now.
Also, since the baby was near the due date, she will need help in planning a funeral, and you might be able to help her with that, as well. She may very well need you to go to the funeral home to help her pick out a casket (be prepared for sobs that won't seem to stop).
I am SO SORRY to hear about your friend's loss. Please let her know that we are praying for her!
With greatest sympathies,
~J.~
____@____.com (Please feel free to email me if you need anything. We live in Carrollton.)