V.L.
I am also going through a divorce a nasty one at that. Mine is a little more difficult then usual cause my husband is in the navy, but my advice to you is keep it as civil as possible. If you guys can come to some sort of an agreement about the kids, house, fianaces ect....then do that cause its a lot cheaper that way. Its when you start fighting over things is when it gets expensive. Good luck in whatever may come.