A.C.
My cousin had twins... a boy and girl and the little girl only lived a month and 3 days. she said that she wanted people to acknowledge that she had 2 babies so I would think definitly bring something for both babies! I'm sure this is a very hard time for your family now and I'm sorry! I'm sure she will be just as happy about having her little girl as anyone else who just gave birth to a beautiful baby so it needs to be celebrated! If you feel that balloons are too festive then do something different. maybe flowers? Just please do something for both babies! It REALLY upsets my cousin if people pretend like her daughter never existed