K.,
First, I am so sorry for what you're going through! Second -- don't fear, there are great doctors in Richmond.
I am a huge proponent of my OB, who I consider one of the best in the city. Dr. Christine Isaacs ###-###-####) works for MCV. She used to be at West End OB at Henrico Doctors, but switched about two years ago to teach. In a word, she's AMAZING. Here are some examples:
--When I was 14 weeks, I was so constipated I couldn't move. She called me every day, called a GI, called her BROTHER, who's a GI, everything. We finally found a treatment that worked, but she was so awesome about tending to me.
--I had a 36-hour back labor that was hellish. I was trying to go natural, and would have had the baby not been sunny-side up. I got to the hospital 24 hours in after excruciating contractions that whole time and I was only 3 cm. Any other dr would have given me a C-section. She stayed at the hospital an extra 24 HOURS past her shift, tried everything, and finally found something that worked so I could deliver vaginally. Honestly, have you ever heard of that?
She sees patients at the Stony Point office Tuesdays and Thursdays, and it's not that far -- just down Parham over the river. I loved delivering at MCV. Parking is a pain, but it was worth it for the medical care. Also, the nurses call you that day.
I hope this helps and GOOD LUCK!
J.