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I went to Naperville Central (many years ago!) but I feel like Naperville Central and North are pretty comparable -- they have a longer history than the other three schools and, in my opinion, both are considered to be "great" academically.
Metea is the newest of the all the schools but, from some of my neighbors, I heard the teachers there are very motivated and their kids really love the school & faculty. I also heard the school is set up to try and keep the freshman & sophomores and more separate from the upperclassmen, juniors and seniors -- guess this was done to prevent teasing/bullying from upperclassmen. The school is "state-of-the-art" since it was just recently build.
Honestly, I don't know too much about Wabonsie so I cannot say much there.
Neuqua has been in the news quite a bit for drugs -- mostly because of the documentary that was released (by students) called "Neuqua on Drugs" -- this doesn't mean the other schools don't have any drug problems -- I'm sure they do, to a certain extent, but not as public.
Those are my thoughts :) If I had to choose a school for my kids, I'd probably move into district 203 -- historically, these schools have done well academically and when I went to school, I had the feeling the student mix was pretty diverse. Good luck with your house search!