S.R.
No harm in speaking with her about her voice, say it bothers you when she speaks so loud, can you please lower it a bit. How do you know she is overfeeding the baby? How old is the baby, what is she feeding him? As for laundry, plainly tell her not to do it, and if you have to, hide it somewhere where she doesn't see it. I wouldn't be happy about soap operas either but, no one is perfect and if the baby was happily playing in his playpen, I wouldn't make a huge issue out of it.