I am in the same situation. My son is going on 3 years old, and recently I was accused by my in laws that I was not feeding my child. As you might imagine, I was furious. I did notice that he was slimming down, but his height sky rocketed. I took him to his dr. and she suggested pedia sure, well my son doesn't like it. So what i do is make him smoothies with his favorite fruit. And his doctor also told me to give him whatever he asked for(he only likes hot dogs, chicken nuggets,and french fries and pancakes). So at 10pm he sometimes ask for pancakes and I give it to him. I also was told that if they (meaning children) notice you are getting bent out of shape about them not eating they will do it to you all the time. Just let him know that you will not get upset that he doesn't want to eat and when he is ready he will let you know. I also have a variety of things for him to eat beacuse they are at a stage where they want to make dicisions for themselves. Eating what he wants to should be ok. Your son will come around, just be patient. Hope my experience was helpful.