When I was a little girl, my parents gave me a red wooden phone. I would sit on that phone and conduct business deals. I liked the sound of well used paper stacks rustling and would keep a folder of drawings and notes next to me so that I could pick them up and put them down, making the noise. It all made me feel very grownup. Very much a boss. I remember that vividly.
It's hard being a kid sometimes, isn't it? They have not realized yet that none of us are big-boss ALL the time (thank god). And that being "boss" isn't really all that fun. None of us has control of everything, but kids feel that much more, I think. I think they THINK we have much more control than we really have.
I remember the first earthquake I was in. I thought my sister made it happen. I kept on yelling, "turn it off!!!! Turn it off!!!!!" I didn't understand that big kids and grownups aren't all powerful. It makes me laugh to remember that now, but at the time I was so frustrated and bewildered.
Why not take him down to the Ocean. Explain that none of us are boss of everything. It's good to not be all powerful or controlling. When we swim in the ocean, we are able to feel the power and control of something much bigger than us. I was swimming in your Ocean during a storm and was knocked against something - hard. I really woke up that day, and realized how small I am. It was very humbling, and very freeing.
To be a child is to be able to relax and let others run the show. At the time it's frustrating. But it's very important for a child too. Not being the boss is a lesson I am relearning. And a good one, at that.
I hope your storms are over, and that your home did not become damaged.