My Four Year Old and Learning in NY

Don't worry. She is fine. My son was the same way at that age. Do things with her that are fun, but at least she is practicing her ABC's. For example I used to show my son the letter A on a piece of paper and I would make the "A" sound. The next day I would bring him an apple and I would say A is for apple. I would make the "A" sound and then just give him the apple to eat. Another day I would make the letter A with him on a piece of paper by using pasta shells and glue. You can concentrate on one letter per week or two. Just try to make it fun, but don't pressure her or over do it or she will get tired and that is the last thing you want to do. I also suggest the Leap frog DVD of the ABC's.

Your daughter is totally normal. My daughter was the same way at four and she's five in kindergarten now and they seem to be learning their numbers and letters all over again. Be patient and relax. They tend to know letters they see often, like my three year old knows x, o and K, because x & o are everywhere and K starts his name. Talk to her teachers, I'm sure they will confirm what I'm saying. Enjoy her!

Hi. I'm a elementary reading teacher and I wouldn't worry just yet. The best thing you can do for her right now is read to her, everyday. Let her look at the book with you as you read. Track the print while you're reading so she understands left to right directionality. Reading aloud is so important for children of all ages because it exposes them to new vocabulary, language, and allows them to hear what a good reader sounds like. Do not take her to a therapist yet. Give her time, but expose her to as much print as you can, both environmental and in books. Ask her questions while you read about letters and numbers, but don't make it boring or chore-like, otherwise she will hate reading and that's the last thing you want to do. Make it fun, and make it your special time together, to bond and make memories. Good luck. ~C.

Kids learn at different rates, but if you are concerned you can have your child evaluated for early intervention services (they are free, and I've heard they are very good).