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Hey S. I couldnt help but respond to this, I'm going through something similiar with my son and daughter and their dad. My son does have a behavioral problem and it comes from all the arguing during our breakup, then fighting over the kids. My son was doing that as a way of getting attention, but when he was with me, I didnt see that behavior other than the normal sibling rivalry. The school behavior was an outcry for help, for attention, my children both see child psychs, and so far what i've learned, is children act out in different ways, everything we do and say they catch onto, your children know whats going on, but they just dont know how to interpret that, and dont know the proper way to deal with it. Even tho our situations are different some things are similar,, the thing with the teacher, just make sure they know a little bit of whats going on in your family, and your daughter may be acting out feelings or frustrations, having parents that arent together, I've learned is hard for a child, and you know girls love being with their mothers,,,but just make sure the teacher doesnt label her as a trouble maker, so that way even if she's behaving herself, she doesnt get blamed for it, just talk to the teacher, get a full understanding of whats actually going on, and make sure she knows. I dont know how old your daughter is, but if she's old enough to understand things try to talk to her, maybe she can give you some insight on how she feels in her little heart, let her know no matter what you will always be there, and that you love her, let her know that your there to talk as well as listen to her, and you want her to help you understand whats going on in school or in class, so that you can make it better or her like mothers do. I hope that helps some,,,keep in touch if you want to